What It’s Like To Be Cheated On By Someone We Trust More Than Anything.We all make promises, of course.But promises from the person of(or follower of) the reputed discipline, indeed,make a difference. But it may turns out to be nothing more than empty, wishful thinking,it may happens from such trusted person also. Cheating is something we never condoned nor, to be honest, understood.Being cheated on is arguably the worst feeling in the world, emotionally speaking of course. It can be detrimental.
If the person we’re in great trust with – cheats on us… words can barely do justice for the pain.At first, we don’t want to believe what we’re hearing about.While this is a bit too broad to be true in every case, the fact is many of those who cheat do so because they believe it’s OK to do so. So they do it regularly-knowingly or unknowingly!.. Most often,we’re never actually meant to find out. Most cheaters are chronic cheaters by their subconscious mind.
Our entire future has just been rewritten – and we now have no idea how the book is going to end. That’s the worst part of being cheated on.It’s not necessarily that our ego gets hurt and bruised that rocks our world; It’s that the entire future we planned for our self disappears, and we don’t know where to go from here.
But here is the ultimate solution from Bhagavad Gita (“Song of God”) –
“Whatever happened, happened for the good; whatever is happening, is happening for the good; whatever will happen, will also happen for the good only. You need not have any regrets for the past. You need not worry for the future. The present is happening…”
भगवान श्रीकृष्ण प्रत्येक इंसान से विभिन्न विषयों पर प्रश्न करते हैं और उन्हें माया रूपी संसार को मन से त्यागने को कहते हैं, भगवान का कहना है कि पूरी जिंदगी सुख पाने का एक और केवल एक ही रास्ता है और वह है उनके प्रति पूरा समर्पण।
तुम क्यों व्यर्थ चिंता करते हो? तुम क्यों भयभीत होते हो? कौन तुम्हें मार सकता है? आत्मा का न कभी जन्म होता है और न ही यह कभी मरता है।
परिवर्तन संसार का नियम है, एक पल में आप करोड़ों के स्वामी हो जाते हो और दूसरे पल ही आपको ऐसा लगता है कि आपके पास कुछ भी नहीं है।
अपने आप को भगवान के हवाले कर दो, यही सर्वोत्तम सहारा है, जिसने इस शस्त्र-हीन सहारे को पहचान लिया है वह भय, चिंता और दु:खों से मुक्त हो जाता है।
जो कुछ भी आज तुम्हारा है, कल किसी और का था और परसों किसी और का हो जाएगा, इसलिए माया के चकाचौंध में मत पड़ो। माया ही सारे दु:ख, दर्द का मूल कारण है।
न तो यह शरीर तुम्हारा है और न ही तुम इस शरीर के हो, यह शरीर पांच तत्वों (अग्नि, जल, वायु, पृथ्वी और आकाश) से बना है और एक दिन यह शरीर इन्हीं में विलीन हो जाएगा।
जो हुआ वह अच्छा ही हुआ है, जो हो रहा है वह अच्छा ही हो रहा है और जो होगा वह भी अच्छा ही होगा। बीते समय के लिए पश्चाताप मत करो, आने वाले समय के लिए चिंता मत करो, जो समय चल रहा है केवल उसी पर ध्यान केन्द्रित करो।
तुम्हारा अपना क्या है, जिसे तुम खो दोगे? तुम क्या साथ लाए थे जिसका तुम्हें खोने का डर है? तुमने क्या जन्म दिया जिसके विनाश का डर तुम्हें सता रहा है? तुम अपने साथ कुछ भी नहीं लाए थे। हर कोई खाली हाथ ही आया है और मरने के बाद खाली हाथ ही जाएगा।
॥ हरि: ॐ तत् सत् ॥
Summary in English:
The Bhagavad Gita (“Song of God”) is the essence of the Vedas and Upanishads. It is a universal scripture applicable to people of all temperaments, for all times. It is a book with sublime thoughts and practical instructions on Yoga, Devotion, Vedanta and Action. The Bhagavad Gita has influenced many great thinkers over the years.
- Why do you worry without cause? Whom do you fear without reason? Who can kill you? The soul is neither born, nor does it die.
- Whatever happened, happened for the good; whatever is happening, is happening for the good; whatever will happen, will also happen for the good only. You need not have any regrets for the past. You need not worry for the future. The present is happening…
- What did you lose that you cry about? What did you bring with you, which you think you have lost? What did you produce, which you think got destroyed? You did not bring anything – whatever you have, you received from here. Whatever you have given, you have given only here. Whatever you took, you took from God. Whatever you gave, you gave to him. You came empty handed, you will leave empty handed. What is yours today, belonged to someone else yesterday, and will belong to someone else the day after tomorrow. You are mistakenly enjoying the thought that this is yours. It is this false happiness that is the cause of your sorrows.
- Change is the law of the universe. What you think of as death, is indeed life. In one instance you can be a millionaire, and in the other instance you can be steeped in poverty. Yours and mine, big and small – erase these ideas from your mind. Then everything is yours and you belong to everyone.
- This body is not yours, neither are you of the body. The body is made of fire, water, air, earth and ether, and will disappear into these elements. But the soul is permanent – so who are you?
- Dedicate your being to God. He is the one to be ultimately relied upon. Those who know of his support are forever free from fear, worry and sorrow.
- Whatever you do, do it as a dedication to God. This will bring you the tremendous experience of joy and life-freedom forever.
Some quotes from famous personalities across the world on the Bhagavad Gita:
- Albert Einstein
- “When I read the Bhagavad-Gita and reflect about how God created this universe everything else seems so superfluous.”
- Aldous Huxley
- “The Bhagavad-Gita is the most systematic statement of spiritual evolution of endowing value to mankind. It is one of the most clear and comprehensive summaries of perennial philosophy ever revealed; hence its enduring value is subject not only to India but to all of humanity.”
- Mahatma Gandhi
- “When doubts haunt me, when disappointments stare me in the face, and I see not one ray of hope on the horizon, I turn to Bhagavad-gita and find a verse to comfort me; and I immediately begin to smile in the midst of overwhelming sorrow. Those who meditate on the Gita will derive fresh joy and new meanings from it every day.”
- Henry David Thoreau
- “In the morning I bathe my intellect in the stupendous and cosmogonal philosophy of the Bhagavad-gita, in comparison with which our modern world and its literature seem puny and trivial.”
- Dr. Albert Schweitzer
- “The Bhagavad-Gita has a profound influence on the spirit of mankind by its devotion to God which is manifested by actions.”
- Carl Jung
- “The idea that man is like unto an inverted tree seems to have been current in by gone ages. The link with Vedic conceptions is provided by Plato in his Timaeus in which it states ‘behold we are not an earthly but a heavenly plant.’ This correlation can be discerned by what Krishna expresses in chapter 15 of Bhagavad-Gita.”
- Herman Hesse
- “The marvel of the Bhagavad-Gita is its truly beautiful revelation of life’s wisdom which enables philosophy to blossom into religion.”
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
- “I owed a magnificent day to the Bhagavad-gita. It was the first of books; it was as if an empire spoke to us, nothing small or unworthy, but large, serene, consistent, the voice of an old intelligence which in another age and climate had pondered and thus disposed of the same questions which exercise us.”
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